Tuesday, September 21, 2010

In search of a Mentor

From many days I am in search of a person – a master who can direct, teach, share, scold, make me listen, convince with facts, enlighten, destroy the evil in me and make me more sensible, productive, knowledgeable, humble, richer and happier.

I think each of us at one point of time get stuck where we become kind of brain dead. We will struggle to take even a smallest decision. Sort of dead end where nothing flashes. No matter what you do, how much ever u think, no use. That’s when the mentor / master will come in to picture. Who can see the situation as an outsider, analyze, use his experience and give us the helping hand, show us the direction. Just like someone throws a big rope when you are getting sucked up in the Quick sand.

Sometime when we are supposed take some big decision in our life, which can change your life, put you on to some new road, a new direction ,a new world all together, make you prosperous, healthier, happier and proud. Then your mind will say “ Why don’t you take a second opinion ?”. Stuck, Big time. Whom to ask ? Who can think out of the box ? Who can think in your favour and still be non jealous? Who can guide you properly? Who has already done this? I think that’s when we need the mentor / master whom we can simply believe and go ahead.
I am greatly in search on one. Don’t know when I get? Where I get ?Will I ever get ? . Think time is the answer. Till then the search is on.

Anyway there is a link in which you can register yourself for the Mentoring activity. I tried once and for sometime the link was down. I should try again.

Lets share what we have, Lets gain by sharing.

https://mentortogether.org

Monday, September 20, 2010

The More I think..........

The more I think, more I get lost, more I get lost, more questions comes to the mind. Questions make me think again and again. On many times it’s so strange that we try to get our mind out of something but we end up getting sucked up more in to it. Like a quick sand.
I had a long gap from writing as I was getting stupidly busy every weekend. Many things came to my mind to write up , but never worked out. Now a days I am in the loop of Constant improvement, after getting inspired by reading an article on KAIZEN, a Japanese technique for constant improvement. I believe we can easily adopt it to any scenario of our life and see good results. Currently I am taking one step at a time and doing the internal study of myself and analyzing improvement points. Long way to go.

Also I am trying to make few smaller changes in my life style and for sure seeing lot of changes helping me to do things better, live better & think better. As a first step I am trying to eat how much ever is required than how much is left & this is for sure helping me stay alert and quick.

Now a days I am lacking big time on self motivation which is resulting in STAY order on my small dreams of learning Flute, Namaz & Swimming. Need to shake and shake up and wake up and start doing things. Also I am not meeting new people, not making new contacts, new friends and before this I have to refresh my current contact list at least with a friendly call.

I recently got this message and I think it’s a good one:
Always two bulls will be fighting in our mind. The Good and the Bad. The one which wins is the one you feed more .True isn’t?

Why don’t you read this mate !
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Continuous_Improvement_Process